Willem Lingeman
L i f e
U n i t e d
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that love and faithfulness may not leave you


This website is linked to the book 'United for Life'.


A unique book which shows you the divine principles about marriage, divorce and remarriage.


At the bottom of this page you will find some reader comments.




United for Life: ISBN 978-94-6203-841-7
If you want to order 'United for Life' click here.



'If this book saves only one marriage, than it has been worth all the effort!'

Willem & Helen Lingeman


Never in human history has there been so much confusion about marriage, divorce and remarriage.
Even among Christians, the divorce rate equals that of the secular world. Divorce leaves indelible marks on all involved, but especially so on children. They go through life with lingering feelings of distress. This is especially difficult when they are on the threshold of adulthood.
Members of church congregations, elders, deacons and ministers often stand by helplessly, unsure of what to do. Some are even part of the problem or are 'pressured' from within and without the church to fit in with the spirit of the age.
We hope and pray that this book will be a blessing not only to those who find themselves in difficult mamarital situations, but also to members of church congregations, elders and deacons, pastoral counselors, and ministers. It is an excellent tool for personal as well as group study, such as Bible classes and catechism.
This book is also highly recommended for future couples.
Marriage has been designed by God to be a reflection of the relationship between the Lord Jesus and His Church.

There is hope in restoring broken marriages!

'United for Life' is an indispensable recource for anyone desiring to know what the scriptures teach about divorce and remarriage!
May the Lord use this book to open many blind eyes and deaf ears to the truth of His Word regarding this most important issue facing the Church and the world today!
This book is very captivating from start to finish, and it's thrilling to know the Lord will use it to set many captives free!!
If it even saves one soul it will have been worth it, but I'm sure it will bear much fruit!

Judy Zevenbergen, Canada

Seventy years ago this call wouldn't be necessary, all Christians knew that marriage only is ended by death of the spouse. I am so grateful for this light in Europe
Lulu Renteria de Terrones, Mexico


Much to think about. Although questions remain, 'United for Life' deserves to be widely distributed among Christians
Ir. Kees Fieggen, teaches biology and gives Bible classes in the Netherlands
 'United for Life' points out to us what is written in God's Word about the intention of marriage. It is a serious appeal and a clear guide. 'Tolle lege!' ('Take and read!')
Jan Rein de Wit, chief editor of "Weet Magazine" thé Dutch non-specialist Christian journal


After his forestry education and job as a ranger, Willem Lingeman has been a criminal investigator for the last seventeen  years. He has been working with the central government of the Netherlands for over 38 years, upholding nature en (international) nature conservation laws. Willem is a member of the Board for the International Shell Museum 'Creature Shell Foundation' at Utrecht (the Netherlands). Together with his wife and their son he makes and hosts several programmes on local radio stations. The Gospel message is the central theme.

To order 'United for Life' click here.
The book will be sent to you within a few days after the receipt of the purchase price and shipping costs.


On Thursday, June 13, 2013, 'United for Life' was presented to mr. Joël Voordewind,

member of the Dutch parliament for the Christian Union, by mrs. Henriëtte Schreuders, daughter of Willem and Helen Lingeman.




On Tuesday, June 15, 2015, 'United for Life', was presented to mr. Kees van der Staaij, member of the Dutch parliament for the Reformed Protestant Party (Staatkundig Gereformeerde Partij SGP).

More information about 'United for Life' click here.


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reader comments


Some reactions from readers worldwide. For reasons of privacy no names are mentioned.

'I finished the book 'United for Life' in two days. What an eye-opener! Too bad that we heard so little abouy it during our upbringing. Yes, if only we had known...'

'I read the book 'United for Life' and found it enlightening. A brilliant study on one of the most delicate topics amongst and of Christians.'

'The church needs urgently this teaching about marriage, everyone must hear this!'

'An exceptional book. I hope and pray it will be a blessing to many and expose the deception and lies.'

'After my divorce, I remained alone. I felt I had to do that because God asked me to, but I was never able to substantiate it biblically. Those around me thought I should remarry. Because of this book I know I did the right thing.'

'I've been divorced for over ten years now. We both remained alone. After my wife and I read this book we concluded we could not ignore this and, after many years, we started to talk again.'

'A touching book.'

'I commitetted adultry. Now I regret it and want to go back to my husband. Your book has been very useful to me....'

'I am immensely happy with this book!!!...Wow!...I have been alone for 28 years since our divorce and in my heart I always knew that marriage is for life and that it is sacred, eventhough I was only 33 at the time and did not get the support I needed from the church...'

'Good book. This is a watertight case!'

'An exhaustive book.'

'I read the book, enjoyed it and I heartily endorse it.'

'Fantastic book!'

'We gave each of our children a copy.'

'Wonderful. Heartwarming. Confrontational. Full of recognition. Merciful. So true. And very readably written with a beautiful and peaceful layout!'

'Reading your book made me aware - that I was going astray.....'

'The Lord bless you as you labor in His vineyard... your faithfulness and dedication to the convenant of marriage is helping to dispel the lies of the enemy! Praise God!!'

'Many thanks for your book! It is the truth. I remarried after a divorce when the Lord showed me that I wasn't living according to His wil. I divorced again and remain faithful to my first wedding vows. Next week, on our anniversary, I'm going to renew those vows, alone, with the Lord's blessing, I'm sure. What a peace and heavenly joy in my heart. For me your book is an encouragement! Therefore I cherish 'United for Life' as a real treasure.'

'What a wonderful book!!'



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